Music Chat Online: Choose Who Can Message You

Pick who you'd like to chat with. Choose as many as you like.

Who do you want to chat with?

Start at step 1 to set up your chat — it only takes a few seconds.

Start at Step 1 →
Everyone!
Female
Male
Trans
Couple
Other
  • Completely block unselected genders from private messaging me. Anyone outside the genders you picked can still talk in the open room, but they can't open a private chat with you at all.
  • Moderate contact from unselected genders. Private messages from genders you didn't pick go to a separate request list instead of popping up. You can accept or ignore them in your own time.
  • Block unselected genders who are guests (no account). Only applies to guests outside your chosen genders. Registered members can still reach you; throwaway guest names can't.

Pick Who Reaches Your Inbox

This step decides who can send you private messages in the music chat online. Choose one group, several, or Everyone. Other people can still reply to you in the open room, but private messages from anyone outside your choice are blocked or held.

Most good music conversations happen in the room, where everyone can join in. A narrow filter just keeps your inbox tidy, and it works the same in our free online chat rooms.

Found someone with great taste? Take the conversation private. If you'd like to meet people beyond music, talk to strangers is open around the clock.

Music Chat Filters: FAQ

Can people I didn't choose message me?

Not privately, unless you allow it.

Can I choose more than one group?

Yes, as many as you like.

Is it safe to click shared links?

Only from people you've been chatting with, and only to sites you know.

Can I change this later?

Yes, before you enter.

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