Australia Chat Online: Choose Who Can Message You

Pick who you'd like to chat with. Choose as many as you like.

Who do you want to chat with?

Start at step 1 to set up your chat — it only takes a few seconds.

Start at Step 1 →
Everyone!
Female
Male
Trans
Couple
Other
  • Completely block unselected genders from private messaging me. Anyone outside the genders you picked can still talk in the open room, but they can't open a private chat with you at all.
  • Moderate contact from unselected genders. Private messages from genders you didn't pick go to a separate request list instead of popping up. You can accept or ignore them in your own time.
  • Block unselected genders who are guests (no account). Only applies to guests outside your chosen genders. Registered members can still reach you; throwaway guest names can't.

Keep Your Inbox in Check

Down here, you get to decide who's allowed to send you a private message. Tick the groups you're happy with. Anyone else can still yarn with you in the open room, but a one-to-one chat stays off-limits to them unless you change your mind.

A state or a big city is enough detail to share. Keep your suburb, workplace and socials quiet, just as you would in any of our online chat rooms.

Want someone local? Ask "anyone in Melbourne tonight?" in the room. The same settings apply in every free chat room on the site.

Australia Chat Filters: FAQ

Can people I didn't pick message me?

Not privately, unless you allow it.

Can I choose several groups?

Yes, as many as you like.

How much location should I share?

A state or city is enough. Keep your suburb private.

Can I change this later?

Yes, before you enter.

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