Anonymous Chat Online: Choose Who Can Message You

Pick who you'd like to chat with. Choose as many as you like.

Who do you want to chat with?

Start at step 1 to set up your chat — it only takes a few seconds.

Start at Step 1 →
Everyone!
Female
Male
Trans
Couple
Other
  • Completely block unselected genders from private messaging me. Anyone outside the genders you picked can still talk in the open room, but they can't open a private chat with you at all.
  • Moderate contact from unselected genders. Private messages from genders you didn't pick go to a separate request list instead of popping up. You can accept or ignore them in your own time.
  • Block unselected genders who are guests (no account). Only applies to guests outside your chosen genders. Registered members can still reach you; throwaway guest names can't.

Privacy Includes Your Inbox

Hiding your identity is only half of privacy. The other half is deciding who gets your attention. Here you tick the groups you'll accept private messages from, as few or as many as you like. Unticked chatters can still talk to you where everyone reads along, but they can't reach your inbox directly.

First-timers who leave this wide open often regret it within ten minutes. A tighter setting is easier to loosen than a flooded inbox is to clear, and it travels with you to the online chat lobby.

Being nameless doesn't make you defenceless. Blocking and reporting take one tap on any nickname, here and across our online chat rooms.

Anonymous Chat Filters: FAQ

Can people outside my filter message me?

Not privately, unless you allow it.

Does blocking someone reveal anything about me?

No. They simply stop reaching you.

Can I pick several groups?

Yes, as many as you like.

Can I change this later?

Yes, before you enter the chat.

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